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Secrets of Negotiating - Roger Dawson
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How To Get Everything You Want.  By Roger Dawson.
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Roger Dawson, America's Top Expert in The Art of Negotiating on The Leaderonomics Show
Roger Dawson's business background includes being president of one of California's largest real estate companies, with 28 offices, five hundred and forty sales associates, and a volume of over $400 million dollars per year. As a full time speaker since 1982, he has trained managers and salespeople at the top companies and business associations throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, Taiwan, China, New Zealand and Australia. He was inducted into the Speaker Hall of Fame in 1991. Business executives love Roger Dawson for his ability to teach their people how to improve profits and make more sales with Power Negotiating tactics. http://www.leaderonomics.tv
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Day 12 The Secrets of Negotiation
Roger Dawson
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Roger Dawson, author of Secrets of Power Negotiating teaches you the number one pressure point in negotiating.
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Negotiation Power | Jack Nasher | TEDxUniMannheim
WHAT IS HIS TEDx TALK ABOUT? Jack Nasher is convinced that you don’t get what you deserve, you get what you negotiate. Good negotiators, however, are not born, they are made. Jack argues that the "inner game” of the world’s leading negotiators is what makes the difference. And this inner game is the subject of Jack's talk. WHO IS JACK NASHER? Jack Nasher is a bestselling author, advisor and academic. He studied and taught at Oxford University and is currently a professor at Munich Business School. Jack founded the NASHER Negotiation Institute that trains and advises exclusively on the topic of negotiation. His books were on Germany’s national bestseller list for months and were published in Russia, Korea, China etc. Articles by and about him have appeared in the Harvard Business Review, the Huffington Post and Handelsblatt. An avid mentalist, he frequently shows his mind mysteries at the World Famous Magic Castle in Hollywood/California. Jack Nasher is a bestselling author, advisor and academic. He studied and taught at Oxford University and is currently a professor at Munich Business School. Jack founded the NASHER Negotiation Institute that trains and advises exclusively on the topic of negotiation. His books were on Germany’s national bestseller list for months and were published in Russia, Korea, China etc. Articles by and about him have appeared in the Harvard Business Review, the Huffington Post and Handelsblatt. An avid mentalist, he frequently shows his mind mysteries at the World Famous Magic Castle in Hollywood/California. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at https://www.ted.com/tedx
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Ron Shapiro | Negotiation Skills - How to Craft the Perfect Pitch | Every Conversation Counts ep16
Expert Negotiator and New York Times Bestselling Author Ron Shapiro shares his secrets on how to craft the perfect pitch, negotiate anything you want, all while building meaningful relationships. Every Conversation Counts: Ron Shapiro 00:30 - It's not the sale, it's the relationship that counts 01:10 - How to build a bond before the negotiation begins 01:58 - Getting introverts to open up and be vulnerable 03:54 - Why Cal Ripken Jr chose Ron to be his agent during his career 05:26 - The three keys to crafting the perfect pitch 08:00 - Getting to 'Yes' with aggressive negotiators 10:00 - Pivotal conversation that defined Ron's negotiating skills 12:58 - Ron's most important conversation with Mark Shapiro 16:12 - How Ron makes every conversation count About Ron Shapiro: http://www.shapironegotiations.com USA TODAY called Ron Shapiro “one of baseball’s most respected agent-attorneys,” and THE SPORTING NEWS named him one of the “100 most powerful people in sports.” His impressive list of clients includes more Hall of Famers than any other agent, including Cal Ripken, Jr., Jim Palmer, Brooks Robinson, Kirby Puckett, and Eddie Murray, and 2009 AL MVP, Joe Mauer, who have benefited from the more than one billion dollars in contracts that Mr. Shapiro has negotiated. In addition, Mr. Shapiro is the Special Advisor to the owner of the NFL Baltimore Ravens and to the General Managers of the NBA San Antonio Spurs and Oklahoma City Thunder. Mr. Shapiro’s book, THE POWER OF NICE: How To Negotiate So Everyone Wins – Especially You!, was excerpted in FORTUNE MAGAZINE and named one of the “Top Ten ‘On the Job’ Business Books of the Year” by the LIBRARY JOURNAL. About Every Conversation Counts: http://EveryConversationCounts.com If you had to describe the most important conversation of your life, what would it be? Every Conversation Counts documents memorable conversations that some of the world’s most fascinating figures have engaged in to achieve success and more importantly, their true sense of purpose. Through interviews conducted by Television Host Riaz Meghji, this website will look at how a candid conversation can reinvent yourself, your brand and your business. Twitter: https://twitter.com/RiazMeghji Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/RiazMeghji Instagram: http://instagram.com/RiazMeghji Website: http://EveryConversationCounts.com
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Roger Dawson on Negotiation
Roger Dawson is one of the country's top experts in the art of negotiating. As founder of the Power of Negotiating Institute, he has a unique ability to translate lessons gained in international and corporate negotiations into skills that can be quickly learned and easily used by executives and salespeople. Dawson's audio program Secrets of Power Negotiating has passed the 28 million dollar mark, and is the largest selling program in the history of business audio publishing. Four of Dawson's sixteen books have been main selections of major book clubs. His book, Roger Dawson's Secrets of Power Negotiating from Career Press, was a main selection of the Money Book Club, and was the first book ever to be excerpted in a ten-page supplement in Success Magazine and also in Working Woman magazine. Book Roger Dawson at Speakers.com. http://www.speakers.com/Roger-Dawson-speaker-biography
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The Secret of Power Negotiations - Coach Gig's Daily Locker Room
http://dailylockerroom.com I took a course once titled 'The Secrets of Power Negotiations'. At the time, I was entering the business world and had a few bad experiences in negotiating deals and contracts with people. So after I took this course I learned an awful lot about how to negotiate. I learned that great relationships between two people involve negotiating. In business, people negotiate and reach a common ground. http://dailylockerroom.com
One of the Greatest Powers in Negotiation
One of the greatest powers in negotiation is the power to not react. Video by 50 Lessons.
Views: 3734 William Ury
The Art of Negotiation | Maria Ploumaki | TEDxYouth@Zurich
Maria describes the most important skills behind successful negotiation, and she explains how to develop and master such qualities. Maria Ploumaki works with global businesses, executing strategies and negotiations for them that significantly improve their value chain and competitive advantage. She has achieved extraordinary results in global procurement, supply chain management and market share improvement. Having handled USD 0.5 billion and having worked with more than 50 countries, recent projects have brought millions of dollars in cost reductions and profit increase. She has been selected for the Swiss Economic Forum (SEF) as one of the Top 50 Women in Business in Switzerland. Besides that, Maria is a Global Shaper at the World Economic Forum (WEF) and has also been chosen by the Republic of Slovenia as one of 24 Young Global Leaders for the Bled Strategic Forum (BSF). She is a chartered Economist, MCIPS, Six Sigma certified and serves as an Ambassador at One Young World and President at the Oxford Business Alumni Association of Switzerland. This talk was given at a TEDx event using the TED conference format but independently organized by a local community. Learn more at http://ted.com/tedx
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Day 12 Part 2 - The Secrets of Negotiation with Roger Dawson
The Course in Mastery 30 Day Challenge Day 12 Part 2 - The Secrets of Negotiation with Roger Dawson Improving Your People Skills Week 2
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An FBI Negotiator’s Secret to Winning Any Exchange | Inc.
Christopher Voss created his company Black Swan based on the skills learned as a negotiator in hostage situations. #FBI #Negotiation #Conference Get social with Inc. on: Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Inc Twitter: https://twitter.com/Inc Linkedin: https://www.linkedin.com/company/inc--magazine Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/incmagazine/ Pinterest: https://www.pinterest.com/incmagazine/
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The Art of Negotiation
June 2016. This video is from a talk by William Ury at the University of Geneva on the art of negotiation.
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Power Negotiation: Roger Dawson Interview
Roger Dawson gives Keelan some valuable insights to the negotiation game.
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Science Of Persuasion
http://www.influenceatwork.com This animated video describes the six universal Principles of Persuasion that have been scientifically proven to make you most effective as reported in Dr. Cialdini’s groundbreaking book, Influence. This video is narrated by Dr. Robert Cialdini and Steve Martin, CMCT (co-author of YES & The Small Big). About Robert Cialdini: Dr. Robert Cialdini, Professor Emeritus of Psychology and Marketing, Arizona State University has spent his entire career researching the science of influence earning him a worldwide reputation as an expert in the fields of persuasion, compliance, and negotiation. Dr. Cialdini’s books, including Influence: Science & Practice and Influence: The Psychology of Persuasion, are the result of decades of peer-reviewed published research on why people comply with requests. Influence has sold over 3 million copies, is a New York Times Bestseller and has been published in 30 languages. Because of the world-wide recognition of Dr. Cialdini’s cutting edge scientific research and his ethical business and policy applications, he is frequently regarded as the “Godfather of influence.” To inquire about Dr. Robert Cialdini’s speaking, Steve Martin, CMCT or any of our other Cialdini Method Certified Trainers (CMCTs) please contact INFLUENCE AT WORK at 480.967.6070 or [email protected] About INFLUENCE AT WORK: INFLUENCE AT WORK (IAW®) was founded by Robert Cialdini, Ph.D. as a professional resource to maximize influence results through ethical business applications. Offering participatory workshops and training, keynote presentations and intensive Cialdini Method Certified Trainer (CMCT) programs, IAW serves an international audience. For more information, visit our website at www.influenceatwork.com or call 480.967.6070. To order a poster of the final screen shot, visit https://www.influenceatwork.com/store/#!/Science-of-Persuasion-Animation-Poster/p/37513485/category=9805434 For more information on The Small BIG, visit http://www.thesmallbig.com/. For our latest, animated videos from THE SMALL BIG, visit https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S45ay... - narrated by Dr. Cialdini, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xMOlV... - narrated by Mr. Steve Martin, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S45ay... - narrated by Dr. Noah Goldstein. This animated video was created and produced by TINOPOLIS http://www.tinopolis.com/. Subscribe to our blog at: http://www.insideinfluence.com
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The Best Source of Power in Negotiations
http://www.negotiationeurope.com - What is the best source of power in any negotiation?
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Power lawyer Philip Rosen shares his negotiation secrets
Known for his finesse in negotiating complex real estate finance deals, Philip Rosen is the co-head of real estate and infrastructure practices at Weil, Gotshal and Manges. During his 35-year tenure at the law firm, he's represented clients like Brookfield Asset Management, the Port Authority of New York and New Jersey, Starwood Hotels and Resorts, and Macy's. TRD sat down with the negotiator to pick his brain on how he successfully maneuvers a parley.
Views: 6714 The Real Deal
Secrets of Power Salary Negotiating Audiobook by Roger Dawson
I recommend you to listen to the full audiobook Secrets of Power Salary Negotiating, free at our library. Are you earning what you're worth? Master negotiator Roger Dawson shows you how to get a better deal from your current employer and how to negotiate the best deal from a new employer. And you won't come off as greedy, overly aggressive, or selfish. In fact, you'll learn how to win salary negotiations and still leave your boss feeling like he or she has actually won! You'll also learn how to become more valuable to your employer or prospective employer, how to develop power and control over your career, and gain an amazing ability to get what you want.
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Dispersing the Cloud: Episode 18 - The Secret To Power Negotiation by Roger Dawson
Dispersing the Cloud is a way for me to recap my week, document my progress in my businesses and share what books I am reading with my friends family and fans. You can find more about me by searching #MoreThanRules on IG
Negotiation Skills in Hindi || Sales Training Motivation || Selling Skills by Anurag Rishi
This video is all about Negotiation skills in Hindi, and the power of Negotiation Skills, Business Negotiation Skills and Business Negotiation Skills. Sales Series Playlist :- https://goo.gl/ERVFVF Anurag Rishi is a Transformational & Motivational Speaker, Human Potential Trainer and a Life Coach. He is working in the field of Personal Development since 2007. Videos and live sessions of Mr. Anurag Rishi are empowering Lakhs of people. Become a part of his Mission of Empowering people, which he does by realising their true Potential and Programming their minds for Success. Every year Anurag addresses thousand of people from all walks of life - whether private or public sector, NGOs , Small and medium Entrepreneurs, Professionals, School & College students, Teachers, Doctors and many more. His Inspirational videos are keenly watched in 22 countries worldwide through YouTube. Mr. Anurag Rishi Conducts seminars and workshops on Goal Setting, Structured life style, Public Speaking, Financial & Emotional success, Communication & Relationship skills, Leadership quality, Time Management and pressure handling skill. He firmly believes that-"Success depends more on attitude rather than talent". #AnuragRishi #SellingSkills #NegotiationSkills Connect to Anurag Rishi on Social Media by clicking the links below:- CONNECT with Anurag Rishi =======================================­ ► CONNECT WITH ANURAG RISHI ON YOUTUBE :- https://goo.gl/myJHYD ► CONNECT ON FACEBOOK :- fb.me/anuragrishipage ► FOLLOW ON LINKEDIN :- linkedin.com/in/anuragrishi/ ► CONNECT ON INSTAGRAM :- https://www.instagram.com/anuragrishi ► WEBSITE OF ANURAG RISHI :- http://www.anuragrishi.com ========================================­ Check out Some of My Best Videos - Links are listed below ■ Selling Secrets by Anurag Rishi || Sales Training Motivation ● https://youtu.be/orY1_H1Cgws ■ उजड़ जाओ || आप भी उजड़ना चाहोगे ये वीडियो देख कर ● https://youtu.be/lQM1el8tm4U ■ Goal Setting 2018 || New Year Resolutions 2018 ● https://youtu.be/UVqLaOmONCw ■ Brand बन जाओ या Band बजवाओ ● https://youtu.be/VGxPHA9cqfQ ■ Do Your Best and Prepare For The Worst ● https://youtu.be/rK2f0A1stng ■ Law of Gratitude ● https://youtu.be/A18t8AEPldA ■ GOAL SETTING Motivation || Video in Hindi by Anurag Rishi ● https://youtu.be/H55i1_2qhGQ ■ A Failure Disease || Excusitis || A Motivational Video ● https://youtu.be/asgs1DKraQU ■ Kya आपकी LIFE में challenges है ? || Inspirational Video ● https://youtu.be/B7zuYAbWHbs ■ Impossible is Nothing || Most Powerful Motivational ● https://youtu.be/aNOfEKoJU4g LIKE | COMMENT | SHARE | SUBSCRIBE
Negotiation Skills Top 10 Tips
http://www.Negotiation-Skills.org Negotiation Guru Alan McCarthy shares top 10 tips that Fortune 100 companies such as SAP, Oracle and Microsoft use. Please find world class leading products to help you in your negotiations:
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The Power Of Negotiation
Do you get uncomfortable asking for what you want? Do you have a hard time saying “no” and standing up for yourself? It’s time for you to learn the science of negotiation. In this course you will learn: • How not to gain clients. • Get that raise you deserve. • And finally, know and prove your worth. We will have a LIVE broadcast April 20th -- You can pre-order your spot here: http://bit.ly/ThePowerofNegotiation ****** PS- Like, Share, and Explore the Science of People: ☞ Website: http://www.scienceofpeople.com/ ☞ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/scienceofpeople/ ☞ Twitter: https://twitter.com/vvanedwards ☞ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/vvanedwards/
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Time Pressure
Master negotiator Roger Dawson explains the concept of "Time Pressure" as a negotiating tactic.
Secrets of Power Negotiating for Your Dream Job Audiobook by Roger Dawson
Listen to this audiobook in full for free with a 30-day trial: http://mdon.icu/12/249662 There are always a few opportunities in our business life that cause a tidal wave of changes in how your future works out for you. Certainly which college you chose to attend, and what career path you choose. And there are personal factors that play a big role, such as the person you marry, children you have and the friends with whom you hang out. The one business skill that tops them all is your choice of a company for whom you choose to work. Make the right choice and it could lead to great fame and fortune. Make the wrong choice and you will wallow in despair for decades to come. In The Secrets of Power Negotiating for Your Dream Job, negotiation expert Roger Dawson will show you how to negotiate a dynamite compensation and lifestyle package from your employerbe it your current employer or a new employerso you can create the conditions consistent with your vision of your dream job. A great compensation and lifestyle package means more than just a great salary (although it certainly means that!). The skills you learn will also help you to negotiate a great bonus and an excellent benefits package, and to negotiate the right environment and opportunities for you to grow your skills. In Section One, Getting the Offer you'll learn how to: Write a resume that will get you an interview Find the job openings for your dream job Interview well for the job Get the employer to put an offer for you dream job on the table and how to respond to the offer In Section Two, Negotiating Compensation you'll learn how to: Prepare for the negotiation Use pressure points to improve the offer Use Power Negotiating Gambits to get a top compensation package Contact: [email protected]
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Negotiation Power
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Ask for More Roger Dawson.mov
Negotiating expert Roger Dawson tells you why you should ask for more than you expect to get in a negotiation.
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Short Power negotiating Book summary
Short summary, Secrets of Power Negotiating how one gambit can change your outcome
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Roger Dawson - Speaker on Sales Negotiation
Audience love Roger Dawson for his ability to put on a terrific presentation that is custom-tailored to their audiences and filled with content and humor. Roger is the author of Secrets of Power Negotiating and founder of the Power Negotiating Institute.He is full time speaker and author and travels around the world giving seminars to corporations and associations. For more information, please visit The Sweeney Agency: http://thesweeneyagency.com/speakers/Roger-Dawson
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Roger Dawson's Power Negotiating Institute
Roger Dawson is a full time speaker and author who travels around the world giving seminars to corporations and associations. He was inducted into the Speaker Hall of Fame in 1991. Learn more about how to put Roger Dawson's powerful negotiating secrets to work in your business and life at www.rdawson.com
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LATEST EPISODE: https://londonreal.link/latest NEW MASTERCLASS EACH WEEK: http://londonreal.tv/masterclass-yt 2019 SUMMIT TICKETS: http://londonreal.tv/sytd/ Chris Voss is the former FBI Lead International Kidnapping Negotiator, who handled more than 150 international hostage cases, and spent three years investigating the first bombing of the World Trade Center. He is the co-author of the bestselling book 'Never Split The Difference' and the founder and principal of The Black Swan Group, a consulting firm that advises Fortune 500 companies to perform complex negotiations. About London Real: Founded by Brian Rose in 2011. London Real is the curator of people worth watching. Our mission is to promote personal transformation through inspiration, self-discovery and empowerment. We feature interesting guests with fascinating stories and unique perspectives on life. We aim to take viewers on a journey through the lives of others and ultimately inspire them to embark on one of their own. Don't miss our weekly episodes, hit subscribe: http://bit.ly/SubscribeToLondonReal Website: http://www.londonreal.tv Facebook:https://www.facebook.com/LondonReal/ Instagram:https://www.instagram.com/therealbrianrose
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Negotiation Power.mpg
Chapter 7 discussion on Negotiation Power based on the text Essentials of Negotiation 5e by Lewicki, Saunders and Barry (2011) from McGraw Hill. Part of a blended graduate studies class LDR 655 for Siena Heights University at Lake Michigan College. Alternating online (videos) with in class presentations (video production tbd).
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Day 12 Part 1 - The Secrets of Negotiation with Roger Dawson
The Course in Mastery 30 Day Challenge Day 12 Part 1 - The Secrets of Negotiation with Roger Dawson Improving Your People Skills Week 2
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thebookrunner review of Power Negotiating
thebookrunner.com review of Roger Dawson's The Secrets of Power Negotiating, part 1, 13 mile run
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The Negotiation audiobook
The Negotiation audiobook.
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Bargaining Power - Secrets Of Negotiation with Clive Rich
http://www.cliverich.com This is a small sample of the insider knowledge that entrepreneurs, startups and small business owners receive when attending Clive Rich's "Secrets of Negotiation" daytime events and evening training sessions. Clive Rich is one of the UK's foremost professional negotiators who has closed deals worth in excess of $500m with the likes of Sony, Simon Cowell, the Royal Opera House, Apple and Virgin Delivered in partnership with entrepreneur and leading human behaviour coach James Stokes, Secrets Of Negotiation events detail the techniques that top negotiators use to close deals, and provides the skills to successfully negotiate partnerships, licensing, financing and distribution deals. Don't rely on your untrained instincts. Learn how to get the deals that you and your business deserve. Secrets Of Negotiation events are priced for the small business owner and are held in the UK at throughout the year. Visit: http://cliverich.com/events/ Also check out Clive's "Close My Deal" iphone app which provides a wealth of tools, training and tips for aspiring deal-makers. Visit: http://cliverich.com/iphone-app-close-my-deal/
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Roger Dawson - Speaker on Sales Negotiation
Business executives love Roger Dawson for his ability to teach their people how to improve profits and make more sales with Power Negotiating tactics. As a full time speaker since 1982, he has trained managers and salespeople at the top companies and business associations throughout the United States, Canada, Europe, Taiwan, China, New Zealand and Australia.
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Power, Negotiation, and...Sir Isaac Newton?
This video helps people to understand how to deal with power and negotiation when you are the weaker party. Using the analogy of Sir Issac Newton and his refracting of light through a prism, the viewer will learn how to break power down into distinct elements in order to manage it more effectively.
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Power in Negotiation
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Negotiation skills
How to negotiate? here are a few classic steps!
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Power Negotiating Institute - Intro-
"The Power Negotiating Institute was founded in 1982 by Roger Dawson." Have The Power Negotiating Institute speak at your next event. http://marketplace.espeakers.com/speaker/profile/24706
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How to Win at Negotiations: Get a “No” and a “That’s Right,” with FBI Negotiator Chris Voss
If you're interested in licensing this or any other Big Think clip for commercial or private use, contact our licensing partner Executive Interviews: https://www.executiveinterviews.biz/rightsholders/bigthink/ We assume that getting a "yes" from the other side is the goal of any negotiation, but former lead FBI negotiator Chris Voss says knowing how to get a "no" is actually more important. Voss is the author Never Split the Difference: Negotiating as If Your Life Depended on It (http://goo.gl/04OgLC) Read more at BigThink.com: http://bigthink.com/videos/chris-voss-get-a-no-to-win-at-negotiations Follow Big Think here: YouTube: http://goo.gl/CPTsV5 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/BigThinkdotcom Twitter: https://twitter.com/bigthink Chris Voss: You know, successful negotiation is not about getting to yes, it's about mastering no and understanding what the path to an agreement is. Now people are constantly trying to trap us by giving us to say yes. I mean we get hammered on this every single day. Lawyers actually have a term for it they call it cornering. And there's a theory of negotiation out of there called mirror agreement that says the more little yeses I get out of you the more likely you are to say yes to a big yes. So I don't know if that was ever true, but I know that we get hammered so much day in and day out with people trying to trap us with yes; trying to corner us; trying to lead us places by getting us to say yes, that we get defensive instantly when someone tries to get us to say yes. So you've got to get out of the getting to yes mindset, instead understand that yes is commitment and we're always worried about what we've let ourselves in for when we make a commitment. There are three kinds of yeses. There's commitment confirmation and counterfeit. People are most used to giving the counterfeit yes because they've been trapped by the confirmation yes so many times. So the way you master no is understanding what really happens when somebody says no. When yes is commitment, no is protection. If you say no and you just protected yourself, you're actually a little more open to hearing what the other side has to say, because you're not worried about what you've committed yourself to. So you can take most questions that are designed to get yes and simply turn them into the same question where the answer is no and it gets you to the same place. If a boss gives an employee an impossible task and the employee says, "Well you want me to be successful don't you?" That's pushing for a yes. The flipside question to that instead is, "Do you want me to fail?" It's stunning what people are comfortable saying no to. So first of all understanding that you can use a no to make somebody feel protected and a little more open-minded to hearing what you have to say. Now the second move after that is what do you want them to say next? What you really want them to say is that's right. You want to be able to summarize how they feel about things and what the circumstances are so that they feel that you got it, so much so that they look at you in the eye and say, "That's right." And that's what we say at any given point in time when we see something that we know is completely true that we're in complete agreement, we say, “That right!” almost as if we're so totally behind it. It may even have been a partial epiphany we're so behind it. We've just heard something that we feel is the indisputable true. And in many cases a really good that's right is summarized in a way that the other person was actually blind to. They didn't know that those forces were driving them or those passions, but when you say it to them it creates an epiphany on some level where you pointed something out to them that's true that they didn't even realize. They're showing us and telling us that they feel empathy from us. And anytime you feel empathy from somebody else you feel bonded to them. You want to collaborate with them. You want to do whatever you can for them. And that's a great way to find out what kind of latitude somebody has in a deal. And everybody's got latitude someplace. What you want to do is put people in a position where they feel connected enough to you that they're willing to collaborate with you, they're willing to show you the things that they were scared to tell you about before. The cards that everybody holds in a negotiation that if you could just see those cards you might be able to negotiate a completely different deal. Well, that's where this entire approach is really going because everybody has cards they're not showing in a negotiation. Everybody. And if you can get the other side to show you those cards, we call them black swans, the little things that make all the difference, if you can get them to show you the black swans to reveal those black swans then you can probably make a better deal than you've ever had in mind.
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POWER NEGOTIATION  - Middle Negotiating Gambits
Todd Baker is a Loan Officer and Certified Mortgage Planner with at Service First Mortgage Legacy Team. For the past 25 years, Todd has assisted his clients as a trusted financial adviser. When he is not helping his clients with financing, he enjoys spending time with his family and spending time on his boat. Connect with Todd on LinkedIn of Facebook. He can be reached at [email protected] or his direct line at 972 890-9155.
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The Secrets of Power Persuasion for Salespeople -  Using Time Pressure
The Secrets of Power Persuasion for Salespeople - Using Scarcity Roger Dawson http://amzn.to/2bZ54P6 http://amzn.to/2bZ54P6
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